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Posted 05/12/08 - 10:08 PM:
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When you say they are unimportant, are you making the claim that consequences do not matter at all? Claiming that consequences are (either largely or wholly) unimportant is quite a strong claim though, and easily a separate topic in itself.

At any rate, you claim that "consent shows willingness, and willingness is the important part". This is counter-intuitive though, in that it seems to also commit you to be perfectly comfortable with willingness arising from deception: you would have to agree that consent given based on information provided that is deliberately inaccurate is legitimate.

Also, it's not too clear what being 'willing' would involve. What sort of action would not be a willing one? Does any coercion disqualify it; if not, to what degree of coercion would that hold?

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Posted 05/12/08 - 10:53 PM:
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When you say they are unimportant, are you making the claim that consequences do not matter at all? Claiming that consequences are (either largely or wholly) unimportant is quite a strong claim though, and easily a separate topic in itself.


Indeed. Let's simply say I'm of a more deontalogical pursuassion and I completely shun concequentialism.

At any rate, you claim that "consent shows willingness, and willingness is the important part". This is counter-intuitive though, in that it seems to also commit you to be perfectly comfortable with willingness arising from deception: you would have to agree that consent given based on information provided that is deliberately inaccurate is legitimate.


Ah yes, it seems I've worded it poorly. I shouldn't have brought willingness in. Consent is the important part in of itself, but I would agree that consent based on outright unjust fabrications is not legitimate, but dissagree that consent based on "deception" is illegetimate. But this is for a different reason. Unjust lying is wrong, always. Just lying would be lying for either punishment or defence. Unjust lying is wrong, thus any consent that is taken from unjust lying is not legitimate anymore than for instance, the consent taken when somebody has a gun to your head and is threatening you with it. You may give consent to save yourself, but it's overall an unjust action that the other person is doing anyway, and they are not justified despite your consent because it wasn't truly given. On the other hand, I do not consider "deception" that isn't outright unjust lying to be wrong. Thus, it is permissible to ommit facts, for instance, and gain concent that way.

Also, it's not too clear what being 'willing' would involve. What sort of action would not be a willing one? Does any coercion disqualify it; if not, to what degree of coercion would that hold?


I appologize I shouldn't have used that word.
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Posted 05/12/08 - 11:16 PM:
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You're going to have to be far more specific on what makes something 'unjust' then. It seems your case rests heavily on that, and I'm finding it quite unclear as to why you say that some acts are permissible while others are not.

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Indeed. Let's simply say I'm of a more deontalogical pursuassion and I completely shun concequentialism.


Being against consequentialism doesn't imply the view that consequences are unimportant, though. It just doesn't accept that consequences are the sole (or in weaker forms, the main/overwhelming) consideration for moral decision/assessment.


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Posted 05/13/08 - 12:06 AM:
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You're going to have to be far more specific on what makes something 'unjust' then. It seems your case rests heavily on that, and I'm finding it quite unclear as to why you say that some acts are permissible while others are not.


Everything that is Just is that which is not Unjust. Aparently I'm fairly unique in this oppinion. Justice, is the lack of Injustice. Put a slightly different way, everything that is Morally Good, is what is Morally Not Bad. Moral Goodness is the lack of Moral Badness.

As to specifics, I'm Libertarian. That which is Morally Bad is that which goes against a person's natural Rights, Rights that all persons have by virtue of being sentient things. By being sentient, people are able to recognize ownership, and by being able to regocnize ownership, one is able to recognize the ownership of one's self, by virtue of one being one's self (there are a few more arguments to this, that we do indeed own ourselves, but I don't think I'll expand on them at the moment and just hope that you'll accept it as far as my argument goes).

All Unjust things at that point are simply things that are done against the Rights of others, Rights based on self-ownership. As a self-owner, I have full control of what I do and do not do, but since I have to interact with other self-owners, I am sitll limited by my Moral Inability to do anything that goes against other Self Owners. And what I mean by "Against" is those sorts of things that are done without consent or some sort, since after all, I can not do whatever I want to things I do not own, I have to get the consent of those who do own the things before I am to Justly do anything to them.

And Unjust actions have concequences. Unjust actions I like to think create a sort of Moral Debt (hence one can use this to Lie without it being defence, or Unjust, and is what I refer to when I say lying as punishment). You lose your Rights by doing Unjust actions, but you only lose them in a gradual sort of way, depending on what Unjust thing you did. Hence a single lie does not cause you to lose so much that you can be killed.

Now, Children are still Self-Owners. I'll be frank and say I'm still very fuzzy on the nature of parents, but I see no reason why they completely invalidate a Child's self-ownership. Instead, Children seem to have this sort of bondage to Parents, that allows parents to tell children what to do for their safety. But since Children are still Self-Owners, they can sever this bondage at any point in time, and leave their parents. This is just a fancy way of saying " Their house Their Rules", with the understanding that one can simply leave to get out of the rules. So while Parents can stop a child from consenting to sex with adults, they can't *really* stop them if the Child wants it so much he is willing to sever ties. And this bondage only extends to parents anyway, so the fact that "society" may not want children to be able to consent to sex is irrelevant. Children are not bound by society. They are full self owners in spite of the existence of parents, and are able to give consent to do whatever they want, so long as it is Just. And having sex with an adult is a Just thing so long as both parties consent.


Being against consequentialism doesn't imply the view that consequences are unimportant, though. It just doesn't accept that consequences are the sole (or in weaker forms, the main/overwhelming) consideration for moral decision/assessment.


I tried to be clearer by using the words "completely shun". I also thought that the previous statement of being closer to the deontalogical pursuasion would have cleared it up that I view only actions to be morally important.


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Posted 05/13/08 - 12:52 AM:
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Well, this really doesn't make it much clearer at all to me.

Telling me that Justice is the lack of Injustice doesn't tell me anything at all about the content of such. That's just a formal distinction.

Is the Morally Good and Morally Bad supposed to be the same thing as the Just and the Unjust? Or is there some direct or necessary link between them? You very suddenly shift from one to the other, and I can't tell whether you're still referring to the same issue.

Referring to natural Rights doesn't really resolve the issue either, unless you can properly specify what those Rights are and the basis for such. You say that they are based on self-ownership, but the meaning of that isn't too clear: are you saying that I have a Right to anything that doesn't infringe upon those of others; or that the Rights of others are limited by consent?

More problematically: I'm not too clear on this yet, but it looks like you're in danger of arguing in a circle here. If your idea of consent is based on your concept of Justice, and vice versa, you may need some other external justification here.

Also, the discussion was on whether the paedophile may be doing something wrong to the child, not whether the child himself/herself was doing anything wrong. It's not too clear to me why the self-owned status of a child would have any particular effect on the moral status of the paedophile's action.

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Posted 05/13/08 - 11:40 AM:
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Telling me that Justice is the lack of Injustice doesn't tell me anything at all about the content of such. That's just a formal distinction.


It's an important distinction. Or else I wouldn't have mentioned it. It shows that I don't believe that to be a Just person, you really have to do anything. Rather, you simply have to avoid Injustice.

Is the Morally Good and Morally Bad supposed to be the same thing as the Just and the Unjust? Or is there some direct or necessary link between them? You very suddenly shift from one to the other, and I can't tell whether you're still referring to the same issue.


I said they were put in slightly different ways. For the purpose of this discussion, they are the same thing. That which is Morally Good is that which is Just. And the reverse.

Referring to natural Rights doesn't really resolve the issue either, unless you can properly specify what those Rights are and the basis for such. You say that they are based on self-ownership, but the meaning of that isn't too clear: are you saying that I have a Right to anything that doesn't infringe upon those of others; or that the Rights of others are limited by consent?


Uh, I don't understand the conflict. You have the Right to anything that doesn't infringe upon those of others. By not infringing upon the rights of others, in order to basically interact with other humans and use their things, you need consent in some form to make sure you are acting Justly.

More problematically: I'm not too clear on this yet, but it looks like you're in danger of arguing in a circle here. If your idea of consent is based on your concept of Justice, and vice versa, you may need some other external justification here.


Consent is simply a marker that what you're doing is Just. Consent is there to show you that what you're doing is Morally Good. If you have the consent, you could theoretically do anything. And this is Morally Good. But what is Morally Good is based on Rights. And Rights are based on Self-Ownership, which are based on Sentience in order to recognize it and our nature as Humans in that, we are factually Self-Owners.

One little snag is that if you don't have Rights, because you don't have Self-Ownership, you can't consent to anything. But at that point nobody needs your consent to do anything with you.

Also, the discussion was on whether the paedophile may be doing something wrong to the child, not whether the child himself/herself was doing anything wrong. It's not too clear to me why the self-owned status of a child would have any particular effect on the moral status of the paedophile's action.


By affirming that the child is a Self-Owner, I show he is able to consent. If he is able to consent...that's the end of it. If he consents to what the adult is doing, automatically the Adult is in a state of Justice. What he does is Morally Good, for he has consent. In any Ethical Problem, consent is basically the first thing I look to. I think it should be the first thing everybody looks to. Did the person or did the person not concent? If he did, whatever the other person did is Just. (I'm of course assuming that the consent was Valid, as I've explained invalid consent in my previous post)
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The way I see it there is only one 'bad' form of pedophilia, and that is if the child is too immature to understand, so I would say 13-14 is a good minimum limit, assuming no learning disability's. Another reprobate act would be if the child didn't desire sexual actions, but that would fall under the category of rape. I totally agree with you that pedophiles aren't always evil, I believe there sexual interest comes from past experiences, or maybe even, like you said, it's innate.

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I was listening up until that last sentence. How about you go, and learn what paedophilia is, and realise it's not the same thing as rape? Is that too hard for you? Is it too difficult? Is a blurb in a medical dictionary too difficult to read? Even though it's been posted here already? You're not going to get diagnosed with paedophilia just because you're a child molester. You're not that likely to, considering it seems not very many child molesters are paedophiles.

If my hypothetical littler brother or sister was in a relationship with a high age disparity, you know what I'd do? Treat it like any other relationship. Because that's what it is. And if my little brother or sister was raped by an older person, know what I'd do? Treat it like any other rape that might befall them. There's a difference between a consensual relationship and rape. Nobody is defending rape.

And finally, you didn't have any evidence. I didn't ignore anything. It just wasn't there. Your very first sentence was "Is paedophilia wrong because we hate it, or do we hate it because it's wrong?" automatically excluding the possibility that it is not wrong. Especially when you went on to say in the second sentence that there was "no doubt" that it was a detestable thing.


OK, assuming it's not wrong, what makes it morally acceptible or right for an adult to have sex with a child? Love? So, is it right because we love it or do we love it because it's right. I'm trying to ask an ethical question about the basis of morality. You are trying to promote a specific ethical judgement about pedopheia. Most teenage boys would like nothing better than to have sex with a woman... or anyone for that matter. The ethical issues of teens having sex with each other is problematic enough. But add in an adult who really should know better and it becomes very hard to defend as a good thing. I can certainly imagine situations when you might say it didn't hurt anyone and maybe offered great comfort. But these are exceptions. Teens are biologically ready for sex, beginning with puberty. In ancient and pre-historic cultures, with much shorter lifespans and vastly different cultural traditions impregnating a teenage girls was normal and acceptable behavior. These days it almost always morally unacceptable, certainly in the US. Knowing that something IS morally good.. or evil... entails knowing not only whether the society accepts it or not, it's knowing WHY it's right or wrong. Traditionally we have always had religious intitutions to provide moral education. The institution itself provided the moral justification for its ethical code. But these days, there is no supreme moral authority to appeal to. So I come back to my question (Socrates' question) as to why something is moral or not.

Sorry, But I'm not too worked up over the difference between pedophelia and child rape or other forms of child sexual abuse. That doesn't seem to be a philosophical question as much as an opportunity to express a moral preference. Developmentally people don't mature to the point of being able to assess their actions on terms of long-term consequences until 16 or so. Then they have to live with the consequences (good and bad) of their actions for long enough to learn from their mistakes. Only then can a person act with moral responsibility and authority as an adult. Kids get a pass. Period. The adult is the responsible party. That's one reason arranged marriages were the common practice in most cultures and still are in some. Children are considered second class citizens and the property of their parents (who, after all, MADE them). A daughter brings a dowery from the man her father chose because of his position and breeding. What's wrong with that?
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OK, assuming it's not wrong, what makes it morally acceptible or right for an adult to have sex with a child? Love? So, is it right because we love it or do we love it because it's right. I'm trying to ask an ethical question about the basis of morality. You are trying to promote a specific ethical judgement about pedopheia. Most teenage boys would like nothing better than to have sex with a woman... or anyone for that matter. The ethical issues of teens having sex with each other is problematic enough. But add in an adult who really should know better and it becomes very hard to defend as a good thing. I can certainly imagine situations when you might say it didn't hurt anyone and maybe offered great comfort. But these are exceptions. Teens are biologically ready for sex, beginning with puberty. In ancient and pre-historic cultures, with much shorter lifespans and vastly different cultural traditions impregnating a teenage girls was normal and acceptable behavior. These days it almost always morally unacceptable, certainly in the US. Knowing that something IS morally good.. or evil... entails knowing not only whether the society accepts it or not, it's knowing WHY it's right or wrong. Traditionally we have always had religious intitutions to provide moral education. The institution itself provided the moral justification for its ethical code. But these days, there is no supreme moral authority to appeal to. So I come back to my question (Socrates' question) as to why something is moral or not.


The fact that it's not morally wrong means it's morally right. It's irrelevent what society says, what other cultures say, what our culture says, or what a religion says. All that matters is "Is it wrong or not?" and I see no reason for it to be wrong. If it's not wrong, it's right.


Sorry, But I'm not too worked up over the difference between pedophelia and child rape or other forms of child sexual abuse.


Okay. Then I declare I am not too worked up over the difference between you and a child rapist. The similarities are striking after all. What with both being human and having all sorts of organs in common.

That doesn't seem to be a philosophical question as much as an opportunity to express a moral preference.


It's heavily important. If I started talking about how pie was immoral, but by "pie" I meant "Murder" well, if I never mentioned that fact we'd certainly be having a strange discussion.

In this conversation, nobody gives a hoot about child rape because that's just not what the word paedophilia means. Paedophilia. Not child-rape. You putting the two together is like me putting pie and murder together. Stupid.



Developmentally people don't mature to the point of being able to assess their actions on terms of long-term consequences until 16 or so. Then they have to live with the consequences (good and bad) of their actions for long enough to learn from their mistakes. Only then can a person act with moral responsibility and authority as an adult.


Prove it. Or provide some good logical evidence for it. REAL evidence, not "so so and says it" or any other societal crap. I don't want to hear another word about how "society has chosen to protect - blah blah blah". Not unless you're about to tell me why society matters.
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Do informed children still need Protection. Why?

It's obvious that children lack judgment huh? Sounds like an assumption to me. I've met children who do not lack judgment. If one exists, then your statement is false as it is all inclusive.


They do lack judgment. The example you are making is completely ridiculous because all evidence shows that they do. If you happened to meet an exception, this in no way refutes the overwhelming trend. The limitations of the human brain imply that humans in general need time in order to completely form their ego. Maybe in a different society it would take them ten years instead of sixteen, but that doesn't matter. Besides, your statement sounds like "I met a child who does not lack judgment", which is weak. I can say with the same success: "I met god and he told me HalcyonGlaze should be in jail". If you want me to believe something like that in the first place, you would have to prove to me that you did, just as I would have to present you with evidence of my meeting god and him saying that, because I don't feel like beileving your random statements.

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Second, the fact that they might stick their finger in a socket doesn't mean much. An adult might do the same thing. Heck, I've seen a flash of a guy sticking his tin-foil wrapped penis in a socket. He was an adult. Didn't stop him. He has free will. Why should a child be different? If you told the child, he obviously knows on some level what might happen. If he chose to ignore the advice, that is his decision. As a parent, I would think that you do have the ability to control what your child does in-so-much as the child wishes to be under your control. So if the child wished so much to stick his finger in a socket that he literally gave up your assistance and went on his own, you don't have the right to stop him. He is a sentient thing, he has rights, that's the end of it.


Ridiculous. Children do things adults would not. I have seen countless examples. My parents recounted millions of things they would rather change today: for example, my mother quit dance school because she was mad at my grandmother. Today, she feels it was the stupidest thing in the world. Out of ignorance, children can do things any adult (themselves included, given time), would think of as illogical and absurd.

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Third, since when is society right no matter what it says? If society said we should all contract aids, should we? If society says it's okay to have sex with 10 year olds, as many many societies have before us, is it okay then? If society says we should kill all the Poles, is that okay? If society says that the police can run into your house and rape your daughter because you were anti-patriotic, and patriotism is the most important thing, is that okay? If you say no to a single one of those, why the heck should I care that society says we should "defend those who can't defend themselves?"



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Fourth, in what way can a child not defend himself? You mean mentally? What about adults who can't? Do they lose their rights too? Do you mean physically? I'm pretty weak, I can't lift 15 pounds in one arm easily at all. I could be overpowered by a frail stick-figure girl. Do I thus lose my ability to make decisions?

No, but if you get into a fight with a 300 pound wrestler and he is about to rip you to shreds because he does not like you, you have the right to protection. If he succeeds in killing you, he will be persecuted. If, of course, you used as an adult made a contract about getting into a bout with the man and signed a waiver of responsibility in case of injury or death, it's a different story.

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Fifth, How do you tell a child has enough rationale? What if a child had enough at age 5? Can he fuck then?


At five, nobody has any rationale. They have just learned to speak at that point, obviously they can understand nothing about the world. If you become a scientist and genetically engineer a human that has the capacity to fully mature (in mind) at 5, good job. Not applicable at this time.

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Do answer all these questions. I'd love to know. Since after all, all you did was repeat your position...again.

Considering that you said NOTHING intelligent whatsoever, I don't think I can really move on with my argument, even if I want to.

None of your questions are actually different. You should have at least realized that before saying I keep repeating myself. If you don't think of a new argument, this is completely pointless. The whole "do children really lack judgment argument" is going nowhere, because there is nothing to argue.

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If you want me to believe something like that in the first place, you would have to prove to me that you did, just as I would have to present you with evidence of my meeting god and him saying that, because I don't feel like beileving your random statements.




Excellent. You therefore conceede that my argument is indeed correct, and I have no reason to believe you so far. I thus await your proof.




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Posted 05/14/08 - 10:27 AM:
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And having sex with an adult is a Just thing so long as both parties consent.


OK, so an adult has sex with a 16 y/o "child" and both consent. It all feels good and they have a wonderful time. The kid brags to the friends, word gets out and the adult ends up in jail. Is that just? By your definition it would be.

Everything that is Just is that which is not Unjust.


Any term can be defined as not being what it is not. I don't see how such a tautology sheds any light on the cognitive content of its meaning.

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OK, so an adult has sex with a 16 y/o "child" and both consent. It all feels good and they have a wonderful time. The kid brags to the friends, word gets out and the adult ends up in jail. Is that just? By your definition it would be.




Obviously not since nobody consented to being thrown in jail.

Any term can be defined as not being what it is not. I don't see how such a tautology sheds any light on the cognitive content of its meaning.


Not exactly. It is an extremely uncommon position that what is Good is just the lack of Bad. It means in order to be a good person, I don't have to do anything good. I just have to avoid doing bad things.
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It means in order to be a good person, I don't have to do anything good. I just have to avoid doing bad things.


So if I sit alone in my room my whole life, I'm on the same moral ground as someone who spends their life doing good for others and themselves? Or maybe you would say sitting alone in my room is a bad thing because I'm NOT out there doing good... or not out there not doing what is not good? St. Augustine held that evil is the privation (absence) of good. Good for him, of course, was God, which he conceived in a nearly Neo-Platonic sense. Thus, evil for him was just a turning away from God and therefore from reality itself. So are you suggesting that to be good is to turn away from evil? Or that good is the privation of evil? If so, then by extension evil is real and goodness is not. I see the same problem with your position that I see with Augustine's. If you define one as the absence of the other you assume that we know what the present one is in itself, so we can define the other one as the opposite of it. But we don't know the nature of evil in itself any more than we know what is good. Are you suggesting we know what is Bad more easily than we know what is Good? Either way, the question of what makes something good or bad and how we can know that in a way such that "to know the Bad is not to do the Bad" or vice versa.
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So if I sit alone in my room my whole life, I'm on the same moral ground as someone who spends their life doing good for others and themselves?


If by "Good for others" you mean Just altruistic things, then yes.

Or maybe you would say sitting alone in my room is a bad thing because I'm NOT out there doing good... or not out there not doing what is not good? St. Augustine held that evil is the privation (absence) of good. Good for him, of course, was God, which he conceived in a nearly Neo-Platonic sense. Thus, evil for him was just a turning away from God and therefore from reality itself. So are you suggesting that to be good is to turn away from evil? Or that good is the privation of evil? If so, then by extension evil is real and goodness is not. I see the same problem with your position that I see with Augustine's. If you define one as the absence of the other you assume that we know what the present one is in itself, so we can define the other one as the opposite of it. But we don't know the nature of evil in itself any more than we know what is good. Are you suggesting we know what is Bad more easily than we know what is Good? Either way, the question of what makes something good or bad and how we can know that in a way such that "to know the Bad is not to do the Bad" or vice versa.


I don't know about you, or this "we" you speak of, but *I* certainly have a fair idea of what is evil. I could be wrong of course, but I could also be right, and it seems more likely to me that I am correct.


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I don't know about you, or this "we" you speak of, but *I* certainly have a fair idea of what is evil. I could be wrong of course, but I could also be right, and it seems more likely to me that I am correct.


Evil is a man-made entity, I believe that no man has ever been killed by another human being for no reason, whether the reason be a lust for killing or a profit. How can you call something evil when it confirms with self-interest? Something that seems morally evil at the time could lead up to something good, even if we never know it.

Therefore, we can concur that it is not 'evil' to sexually abuse anyone. However, it could lead to undesirable effects within the community, which is why I believe the text from my previous post, which follows.-

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The way I see it there is only one 'bad' form of pedophilia, and that is if the child is too immature to understand, so I would say 13-14 is a good minimum limit, assuming no learning disability's. Another reprobate act would be if the child didn't desire sexual actions, but that would fall under the category of rape. I totally agree with you that pedophiles aren't always evil, I believe there sexual interest comes from past experiences, or maybe even, like you said, it's innate.




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Posted 05/14/08 - 04:08 PM:
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Excellent. You therefore conceede that my argument is indeed correct, and I have no reason to believe you so far. I thus await your proof.


I am very sorry but if you refuse to/are unable to read I have nothing more to say. You made your "all-proving" "I have met a child as rational as an adult argument", you do the proof, or don't waste my time. Your rationality argument has exhausted itself before beginning, since you are clearly not willing to offer proof of children's rationality beyond "I met a rational one once", and I am too bored to cycle through a discussion.
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Posted 05/14/08 - 05:35 PM:
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Evil is a man-made entity, I believe that no man has ever been killed by another human being for no reason, whether the reason be a lust for killing or a profit. How can you call something evil when it confirms with self-interest? Something that seems morally evil at the time could lead up to something good, even if we never know it.


I don't understand. Why is Evil a man-made entity? What does killing for a reason have to do with anything? What do consequences of an action have to do with that action's moral nature?

I am very sorry but if you refuse to/are unable to read I have nothing more to say. You made your "all-proving" "I have met a child as rational as an adult argument", you do the proof, or don't waste my time.


Sorry, I assumed that you would believe me. If you don't wish to, that's fine, you don't have to take my word for it. Realise however, that I will not take your word for it either when you make the far stronger claim that no child is as rational as an adult. I therefor await your proof that all children are not as rational as adults. There are a few billion children in the world. I suggest you start gathering data now. And if you're fast, you might actually finish.

Your rationality argument has exhausted itself before beginning, since you are clearly not willing to offer proof of children's rationality beyond "I met a rational one once", and I am too bored to cycle through a discussion.


Last time I checked, you made a claim first. You prove it.


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Posted 05/15/08 - 04:54 PM:
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I don't understand. Why is Evil a man-made entity? What does killing for a reason have to do with anything? What do consequences of an action have to do with that action's moral nature?


It's like the twelve-hour clock, the twelve hour clock does not exist, it was simply created by humans as a reference to the time of day. Evil is created by human emotions. For instance, when someone feels an act is unjust, like someone taking one's life, it is claimed 'evil'. These acts are not actually evil, just influenced by a factor like self-interest. Now you see that evil is a man-made entity.

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Posted 05/15/08 - 06:57 PM:
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Evil is created by human emotions. For instance, when someone feels an act is unjust, like someone taking one's life, it is claimed 'evil'. These acts are not actually evil, just influenced by a factor like self-interest. Now you see that evil is a man-made entity.


I'm afraid I don't. When somebody feels an act is unjust, and he claims it "evil" well, it COULD be evil. What's to say that it's not and he's just making things up? Maybe he's right. What makes him not right? What makes Evil man-made?
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Posted 05/16/08 - 12:53 PM:
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If by "Good for others" you mean Just altruistic things, then yes.


I don't define the Good as altruism. So what now?


I don't know about you, or this "we" you speak of, but *I* certainly have a fair idea of what is evil. I could be wrong of course, but I could also be right, and it seems more likely to me that I am correct.


The question is what makes *you* correct, or anyone, for that matter. Why is it evil (or good). Moral intuition? Its consequences? Conformity with Divine Commandments?? What? "We" refers to all moral agents, capable of knowing right from wrong and, therefore, responsible for what they do. Presumably good or evil applies to all of us, not just *you* or *I*.

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Posted 05/16/08 - 03:12 PM:
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I don't define the Good as altruism. So what now?


So what *do* you mean?

The question is what makes *you* correct, or anyone, for that matter. Why is it evil (or good). Moral intuition? Its consequences? Conformity with Divine Commandments?? What? "We" refers to all moral agents, capable of knowing right from wrong and, therefore, responsible for what they do. Presumably good or evil applies to all of us, not just *you* or *I*.


You know, I did post a few paragraphs on where I get my moral judgments, when I was speaking to Klorius. They're not even that far back. How about you go read them, and then come back with specific questions if you like? I don't feel like repeated myself on the same page.
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Posted 05/16/08 - 03:59 PM:
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With the surety that the stone falls to earth;
the hunter sinks it's teeth into it's prey -
without the sure knowledge that it is itself the destroyed -
as well as the destroyer.


Precisely the least, the softest, lightest, a lizard's rustling, a breath, a flash, a moment - a little makes the way of the best happiness.
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Posted 05/16/08 - 11:46 PM:
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I think if you want to ask the question of what makes Pedophillia wrong there are two are basically only two angles to come at it from,

1 there is a god, in which case it is wrong because god says it is wrong. Because humans didn't create the idea of evil god did and as such he has the final word on what is good and evil. The issue of a child's innocence, there ability to consent to sex ect. are irrelevant if you believe in god and he says its wrong, its wrong end of story because that's what it means to believe in god, his way or the high way

2 there is no god, in which case there is no right and wrong only peoples opinions. Because if there is no higher power to define wright from wrong the who is left, us? and that's what your asking why do humans define pedophillia as wrong, and the answer is simple, because the majority of us say so. We can't prove it on our own, because no matter what proof or ideas we present the view is simply an opinion, and so can never be right or wrong. We can base our judgments on laws but laws change and are different everywhere, laws are a matter of opinion just like everything else it ALL opinions. So from a non religious perspective there is no one defining reason why child sex abuse is wrong, its up to you

However for those people who thinks its OK especially if the child is "13-14", id ask you to watch a 70 year old man have sex with a 13 year old girl and then tell us that "pedophiles aren't always evil". Or even better turn that girl into your daughter and the 70 year old man into lets say your friend or even better an uncle because hey why is it wrong to have sex with your niece as long as she's OK with it right? or why not your own daughter or your granddaughter, hell why not an orgie with both of them. And what's so specially about 13, thats just someone else's opinion, Because I think if 13's ok then why not 12 or 11 or 10 as long as they say yes, right?. and how do we define "yes" what if they simply don't say no, that still counts right? well don't you think so? Because if there's no right and wrong than its what you think. In which case I think its perfectly OK for me, a 48 year old man to have sex with my 5 year old granddaughter, she's a smart little cookie and she knows what she wants, and in my opinion it's fine, just like you spencer135 think its OK with a 13 year old. after all who's to say were wrong because after all evil is nothing but a man made entity. Correct?
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Posted 05/17/08 - 05:46 AM:
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