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Posted 05/26/09 - 05:01 AM:
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I'm defining 'ego-centricity' as 'self-centeredness'. A 'centering' on 'self'.

Such as when a person eats a sandwich to satisfy hunger or blows their nose to breathe more clearly.

But someone who centers their attentions more on others than their own selves will give their sandwich to others or blow other people's noses. It takes selflessness (as opposed to selfishness) for medical workers to care for elderly people in nursing homes, for example. Many elderly people can't shower themselves or feed themselves. Also, little babies need assistance wiping with toilet paper.

Another example: I view that wiping one's own behind with toilet paper (not to be crass) to be an egocentric behavior, because it attends to one's own personal needs before tending to the needs of others. A truly humble person (focused on meeting the needs of others before meeting their own needs) will wipe other people's behinds with toilet paper prior to wiping their own. The act of wiping one's own behind with toilet paper is an egocentric behavior.

I formerly attended a group called the Theosophical Society (which I don't fully agree with). They often refer to 'ego' as something bad. But I view 'ego' as a necessary extension of the human psyche.

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Posted 05/26/09 - 08:31 AM:
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Possession is nine tenths of the law, while intent is the last tenth and the hardest to prove. You could argue that everything everyone ever does is ego-centric, and evolutionary biology does just that. Even when people die saving the lives of others there is an argument that evolution promotes such behavior because before modern civilization we were very likely to be genetically related to these people we might save.

The same could be said for wiping your butt, we are social animals and even puppy dogs know instinctually to wander outside the nest to deficate. This can therefore be seen as another means of insuring the survival of the species rather than merely the individual. Anyway, my point is that your post requires more illucidation if people are to discuss the topic meaningfully.
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Posted 05/26/09 - 07:39 PM:
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Possession is nine tenths of the law, while intent is the last tenth and the hardest to prove. You could argue that everything everyone ever does is ego-centric, and evolutionary biology does just that. Even when people die saving the lives of others there is an argument that evolution promotes such behavior because before modern civilization we were very likely to be genetically related to these people we might save.

The same could be said for wiping your butt, we are social animals and even puppy dogs know instinctually to wander outside the nest to deficate. This can therefore be seen as another means of insuring the survival of the species rather than merely the individual. Anyway, my point is that your post requires more illucidation if people are to discuss the topic meaningfully.

Are you suggesting that motivations regarding group survival are ego-centrically based? Or the reverse?

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Posted 05/26/09 - 08:25 PM:
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~vince~ wrote:

I formerly attended a group called the Theosophical Society (which I don't fully agree with). They often refer to 'ego' as something bad. But I view 'ego' as a necessary extension of the human psyche.


I must say I think the Theosophists should have disbanded when their 'world teacher' resigned. raised eyebrow

I would say that what makes an act egotistical or not is the thinking behind it. You know the slogan, 'Think global, act local.' If I feed myself etc, with the thought that my hunger is more important than anyone else's then I am egotistical, but if I do it because it is simply practical to keep this body healthy in order to be able to feed others, then it is not. The self, I would say is a structure and habit of thought, that then is acted upon as selfish behaviour, but the same behaviour can possibly come from another source. It is surely not the case that a truly selfless person must starve himself to death, that would be foolish, except in very special circumstances.

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Posted 05/27/09 - 12:06 AM:
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Are you suggesting that motivations regarding group survival are ego-centrically based? Or the reverse?


I'm suggesting that your examples merely look at behavior without any reference to internal processes. This is all good and well, but it is strange and confusing to then invoke terms such as "ego" which generally refer to internal processes. If you are not going to describe this internal process as more than merely "selfish" than it is redundant as well as confusing to refer to it as "ego-centric".
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Posted 05/27/09 - 04:58 AM:
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I'm suggesting that your examples merely look at behavior without any reference to internal processes.
Very true. I'm proceeding from a non-altruistic assumption.

This is all good and well, but it is strange and confusing to then invoke terms such as "ego" which generally refer to internal processes.
I'm just referencing it's existence. A philosophical group which I had attended for several years seems to reference the existence of 'ego' constantly.

If you are not going to describe this internal process as more than merely "selfish" than it is redundant as well as confusing to refer to it as "ego-centric".
I believe that selfishness is a good thing if not taken to excess. Without a bit of selfishness, a person would seldom, if ever, have a tendency to meet their own needs. Everyone needs a strong healthy ego.

smiling face Of course, you're correct that I'm being rather brief. I'd be glad to expound on whatever particular aspects of ego that you'd like.

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Posted 05/27/09 - 05:04 AM:
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I would say that what makes an act egotistical or not is the thinking behind it.
Are you a believer in altruism?

You know the slogan, 'Think global, act local.' If I feed myself etc, with the thought that my hunger is more important than anyone else's then I am egotistical, but if I do it because it is simply practical to keep this body healthy in order to be able to feed others, then it is not.
I personally don't agree that there is a differentiation except in a context of illusion.

The self, I would say is a structure and habit of thought, that then is acted upon as selfish behaviour, but the same behaviour can possibly come from another source.
What other source?

It is surely not the case that a truly selfless person must starve himself to death, that would be foolish, except in very special circumstances.

If a person were altruistically selfless, I believe that they would starve themself to death.

We must be defining 'ego' and/or 'ego-centricity' differently.

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Posted 05/29/09 - 09:38 AM:
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Are you a believer in altruism?


Well, er no, probably not, but maybe yes. I think it happens that people can be unselfish and do for others, but when you make it into an 'ism' then the old ego is playing with the image of being a fine altruistic fellow - which is nonsense.

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I personally don't agree that there is a differentiation except in a context of illusion.


Well again if you are looking at your motivation and priding yourself on how you are doing all this for others, then you are just a greedy politician trying to look good. But again, that doesn't have to be the motive.

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What other source?


Good question. There's only me and the world, right? so if it's not me, it must be the world, I suppose. But really you shouldn't ask 'me'.


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If a person were altruistically selfless, I believe that they would starve themself to death.

We must be defining 'ego' and/or 'ego-centricity' differently.


Well I don't quite understand why you think that. Let's say that I'm not at all concerned whether I eat or not, or whether I live or die, but I see around me that the world is an unhappy place and there are things that I can do about that to improve it for others - maybe by posting my pearls of wisdom on the web, for example. cool Well I am wise enough to know that I have to earn a living and eat and look after this body in order to do that - there is no contradiction there I think?

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Posted 05/29/09 - 08:04 PM:
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I think it happens that people can be unselfish and do for others, but when you make it into an 'ism' then the old ego is playing with the image of being a fine altruistic fellow - which is nonsense.

I fully agree. I recently left a discussion group that I believe focused excessively on altruism. Some people seemed prideful about how altruistic they were, representing themselves as so morally pure that their actions didn't matter to them much at all.

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Posted 06/25/09 - 01:40 PM:
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Perhaps all actions, both good and evil are ego centered. Why do we help others? Because it will eventually make us feel good. We are either going to reap the benefits of appearing to care, or perhaps we are directly to linked to those that we help.

People who let's say "volunteer at a soup kitchen", do so because it is the "right" thing to do. Thus ego-centric.
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