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Posted 06/28/09 - 03:27 PM:	#41
I've been following this thread and will offer my opinion, since you asked, warshed. Forget chicks. They're nothing but trouble. You'll accomplish more and better things without spending your resources on something that provides only temporary pleasure with a tangled web attached to it. Get over this babe. How much time, energy, and money have you spent already on something that still eludes your grasp? You want her so you can feel good about yourself. That's trouble ahead. In order to avoid appearing sexist, I'd give the same advice to a love-lorn female! Just switch the appropriate words above. I've been married for 17 years and still give that advice? What does that say?
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Posted 06/28/09 - 07:31 PM:	#42
When you are strong enough to be content living a life alone, you can have anyone you desire.
Lame is to Wav, as the Brain is to Reality.

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Posted 06/28/09 - 07:41 PM:	#43
The above statement is only true theoretically, but in practice it's not that magical.
Heard joke once: Man goes to doctor. Says he's depressed. Says life seems harsh and cruel. Says he feels all alone in a threatening world where what lies ahead is vague and uncertain. Doctor says "Treatment is simple. Great clown Pagliacci is in town tonight. Go and see him. That should pick you up." Man bursts into tears. Says "But Doctor... I am Pagliacci." Good joke, everybody laugh. Roll on snare drum... Curtains.

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Posted 06/28/09 - 10:19 PM:	#44
kkiiji wrote: The above statement is only true theoretically, but in practice it's not that magical. Then you have never been that strong.
Lame is to Wav, as the Brain is to Reality.

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Posted 06/29/09 - 01:12 AM:	#45
mway - "When you are strong enough to be content living a life alone, you can have anyone you desire". Funny, I've been together with my wife for the 18 years now. The strength in our relationship is that we are strong individuals who really can get along alone, but things are simply better together. We have never had an argument in 18 years. Disagreements, yes, but arguments, no... Does this have to do with being "strong" or "patience"? Meow! GREG
I am not one to attribute that which I cannot understand immediately to be god(s)-perhaps I will never understand, but god(s) are not defined by my lack of understanding-this is the foundation of dogmas, the pressing of connotative values into the realm of dennotative meaning. - MOS http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIYJERcdHb0 Jerry Sings!

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Posted 06/29/09 - 01:38 PM:	#46
Since you guys have taken your precious time to help me with this girl, when I take her to the island, I will tell ya what happens afterwords. Hopefully good news, but I won't get my hopes up.

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Posted 06/29/09 - 01:40 PM:	#47
kkiiji wrote: What did she say when you told her you had a blind date? Well she went on about how all her blind dates never worked out and that she will never go on a blind date again. I just said well, the girl is Asian, whom I am generally not interested in, but I will give it a shot and see what happens.

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0 of 1 people found this post helpful Posted 06/29/09 - 01:53 PM:	#48
Sorry, but not selfrespecting lady is still a virgin after a certain age, sixteen seems about right, eighteen for the slow ones. She is completelly neurotic, not worth your while. Also, sorry to break the news but sex is an important part of a relationship. If it doesn't work in that aspect it is just a bit of a waste. Life is too short!

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Posted 06/29/09 - 02:55 PM:	#49
ms anthropist wrote: Sorry, but not selfrespecting lady is still a virgin after a certain age, sixteen seems about right, eighteen for the slow ones. Was this supposed to be sarcastic?
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Posted 06/29/09 - 03:02 PM:	#50
ms anthropist wrote: Sorry, but not selfrespecting lady is still a virgin after a certain age, sixteen seems about right, eighteen for the slow ones. She is completelly neurotic, not worth your while. Also, sorry to break the news but sex is an important part of a relationship. If it doesn't work in that aspect it is just a bit of a waste. Life is too short! Wow, umm, I don't understand what self-respecting lady and not being a virgin have anything to do with anything. I agree sex is important, but only to a relationship involving sex. We have done sexual things, but not sex, if she was just some normal girl, I would have kicked her to the curb, but to me, she isn't so I put up with that, and its a small sacrifice to me, but anyways I am speaking as if we were together 2 years, we were only together 3 months and weren't even exclusive. She may indeed be lying about being a virgin, if she is, thats her deal, if she isn't then whatever. It means nothing to me, but I have heard people say that girls who are virgins act differently than girls who aren't, and maybe that is a factor in everything, and so I am presenting that factor to you guys. I know most are skeptical, as am I, but for the sake of understanding, lets assume she is a virgin, how does that change her personality, or my strategy towards her. I am not ga ga over her because she is a virgin, trust me, I can get sex elsewhere if need be, and if anything virgins are a handful since sex with them initially is very uncomfortable . Though I am a man and I enjoy sex, I am quite capable of controlling my libido. I agree life is too short to not enjoy it, but one can be happy and still be a virgin, though I think they may be cutting themselves short if they wait too long.

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