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Posted 11/05/09 - 11:59 AM:
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The historical basis of marriage was as a private contract. This is for the most part as it remains. The involvement of the state with marriage is microscopic. There isn't even a central registry of marriages in any state that I am aware of. A couple could go their whole lives saying that they were married, and in fact never have been married in the first place, or became married by default though common law marriage as some states recognize and some don't. The main point that it becomes an issue is when the marriage ends. At that point the services of the state are most often called in, to sort things out. Just as what happens quite often when any legal entity breaks up.


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You are joking, I hope.

All states maintain marriage records, either as public or sealed records depending on the preference of the married couple, which remain on file and are accessible to varying degrees. Marriage licenses determine all manner of important legal and economic matters, from taxes, to insurance costs, hospital visitation rights, to distribution of property after death. The state has a role in all of these concerns. Marriage, as it exists today, is thoroughgoingly a state institution.
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Posted 11/05/09 - 12:50 PM:
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Even if it were the case that there were no legal benefits for homosexuals to get married, I would still support their right to do so. Gay people want marriage for the same reasons straight people do, and I would think very few of them think about all of the legal aspects, and the division of property upon separation.

People want marriage for idealistic, social, civil, image, acceptance, romanticism, recognition, and to made a family.

I see no reason to deny them this.

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Posted 11/05/09 - 03:19 PM:
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The historical basis of marriage was as a private contract. This is for the most part as it remains. The involvement of the state with marriage is microscopic. There isn't even a central registry of marriages in any state that I am aware of. A couple could go their whole lives saying that they were married, and in fact never have been married in the first place, or became married by default though common law marriage as some states recognize and some don't. The main point that it becomes an issue is when the marriage ends. At that point the services of the state are most often called in, to sort things out. Just as what happens quite often when any legal entity breaks up.



thewatcher wrote:


raised eyebrow

You are joking, I hope.

All states maintain marriage records, either as public or sealed records depending on the preference of the married couple, which remain on file and are accessible to varying degrees. Marriage licenses determine all manner of important legal and economic matters, from taxes, to insurance costs, hospital visitation rights, to distribution of property after death. The state has a role in all of these concerns. Marriage, as it exists today, is thoroughgoingly a state institution.


In the states that I am aware of, marriage licenses are issued at the local town or city clerk's office and that is no state registry is kept of persons to whom licenses were issued to or for which of those licenses a solemnization of marriage vows occurred. There are also states that recognize common law marriage so there is not even a marriage license or the fact of a ceremony to record under those circumstances.

Granted there are benefits the government provides for persons who are married but the context of the discussion was what if any government intervention that there was in the marriage itself. The state has very little to do, if nothing with how the marriage contract itself is executed was my point.

There ought to be zero discrimination by sex as to who can get married, but some of the discussants were talking not about actually and practically ending sex discrimination in marriage but only agreeing that it ought to be ended by the state having nothing to do with marriage at all, which would include I would assume getting rid of state recognition of the marriage contract itself. So they are against discrimination in marriage but only if will be ended via a libertarian or anarchist dream of the ending just about any state activity.

A parallel would be that they might say that they are against racial discrimination in public schools but to end that discrimination would only call for the enactment of tax credits to send children to private schools or the end of taxes for the sufficient support of public schools.






Edited by davidasearles on 11/05/09 - 06:32 PM
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Posted 11/08/09 - 03:04 PM:
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Granted there are benefits the government provides for persons who are married but the context of the discussion was what if any government intervention that there was in the marriage itself. The state has very little to do, if nothing with how the marriage contract itself is executed was my point.


Entirely incorrect. The state recognizes marriage ceremonies, demands paperwork be filled out and, in some cases, mandates county-issued training for those preforming the ceremony (as in the case of a deputy commissioner of civil marriages).

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There ought to be zero discrimination by sex as to who can get married, but some of the discussants were talking not about actually and practically ending sex discrimination in marriage but only agreeing that it ought to be ended by the state having nothing to do with marriage at all, which would include I would assume getting rid of state recognition of the marriage contract itself. So they are against discrimination in marriage but only if will be ended via a libertarian or anarchist dream of the ending just about any state activity.


raised eyebrow It does not follow that the elimination of state "marriage" would entail or necessitate the elimination of all state activity. On the contrary, as I demonstrated in an earlier post, it would be a simple matter for the state to do away with "marriage" (by that name) and establish a legal category that fulfills the same roles without presuming upon state intervention in and sanctioning of what is essentially a religious and cultural contract.


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Posted 11/08/09 - 03:12 PM:
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well, the whole seperate but equal thing...
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Posted 11/08/09 - 06:17 PM:
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well, the whole seperate but equal thing...


Indeed, hasn't apartheid worked so well in the past? rolling eyes

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Posted 11/10/09 - 03:47 AM:
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without presuming upon state intervention in and sanctioning of what is essentially a religious and cultural contract.


could you please explain this phrase? especially at "presuming". Maybe if you could rewrite the phrase without using that word it would be more understandable to me. Thanks.
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